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What a delightful post. Thank you, Erika, for skillfully describing this blast from your past.

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Hi Julie! Thanks so much for reading along and letting me you know you enjoyed it. 🤗 It was sure fun to write!

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Hello, Erika. You are most welcome. The fun you had writing it was evident throughout the entire piece.

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This is great. Thanks for telling us these stories.

I went to school at a missionary, mostly English speaking, school in Tegucigalpa Honduras when I was little, so I don't know if that counts...but I do remember the one year my parents were on "home assignment" and I had to attend about half a semester at the school my dad had gone to in New Jersey. For about five minutes I was exotic and strange and then everyone realized I basically looked like them and didn't speak Spanish and after that only one girl really wanted to be friends with me. I learned to make dandelion chains there and also some kids found a nest of baby bunnies in the playground once, though, so that was cool.

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Thank you Jenn! It sounds like you’ve had some unique experiences growing up! And I think those kids at your dad’s school were missing out. I would’ve loved to make dandelion chains or daisy crowns with you. 🌼

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Aw--thanks. That would've been fun! I definitely had some unique experiences...and tend to keep having them. I am therefore rarely bored. 😄 And it should be acknowledged that I have very many great friends now--many of whom just showed up for a virtual "birthday party" which ended a few minutes ago. Those are long-haul friends!

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I hope you had a marvelous birthday! 🥳

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Thank you! I sure did!

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This was so fun to read both as a mom to TCKs in Asia that have gone to school for some time (now homeschooling) and an auntie to other TCKs in Japan who also had a brief stint in Japanese school (also turned to homeschooling!). Experiencing other cultures is so good for kids if uncomfortable much of the time.

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Hey Amber, thanks for reading! It’s nice to meet you. 😊 Totally agree on experiencing other cultures.

Also I was homeschooled from 1st grade till graduation! That summer was the only time I’d ever spent in a public school. Kind of wild.

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Wow! We didn’t start until 2020 like a lot of other people but it got me over the hump of being intimidated and then learning we could do it, and enjoy it.

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Oh wow, just wow, Erika - what an absolutely gorgeous post! I've learned so much - such wonderful stories! Unicycles! Lunch! Leather backpacks! Cleaning teeth at school! Cleaning THE school!

A TERRIFIC read, as always! Thank you so much. ☺️

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Rebecca! After reading you list out these cultural differences back to back, I'm reminded again how special it was to have this experience. I've had to take a bit of a break from Substack but look forward to catching up on my favorite newsletters—yours included, of course. ❤️

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Lovely to see you, Erika! 😘 I’ve got a tonne of catching up to do, too - I’m very behind on notifications, and as for my Substack inbox, it’s bursting with glorious words from all corners of the world which I just haven’t been able to read yet!

Busy summer, so far! ☺️

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What a joy to read this tonight! I laughed out loud when I read your footnote about the "American Girl" shirt. 😄

And teeth cleaning after lunch at school?! What a DREAM! How did I not know this? Is this why you've always paid attention to how I brush my teeth?

I loved everything about this post. Thanks again for sharing this with us.

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Your comment brought me great happiness. 😂 I WONDER if that teeth brushing experience made me hyper aware of people's brushing habits. 🤣 🤣 🤣

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